Joan Vassos, the star of The Golden Bachelorette, recently provided insights into her relationship with fiancé Chock Chapple after their enchanting engagement finale aired on ABC. In an exclusive conversation with Bachelor Nation, published on March 27, 2025, Vassos expressed how the couple is savoring their time together without the urgency of wedding planning.
The pair became engaged on a picturesque backdrop in Bora Bora during the season conclusion. Since then, they have been managing a long-distance romance between Maryland and Kansas, making concerted efforts to maintain their connection amid busy lives and personal commitments.
“I think we’re really enjoying where we are right now, and I think if we put that pressure on us [to plan], we won’t enjoy what we’re doing now,” she shared.
Vassos highlighted that without a timeline guiding them, and no immediate desire for children, they have chosen to focus on the present. Both partners remain deeply committed while thoughtfully considering their next steps at a comfortable pace.
Focus on Family Over Wedding Plans
Currently, Vassos and Chapple prioritize familial celebrations over their wedding plans. Vassos noted that her son is set to wed this summer, with another son likely to announce an engagement soon.
“Joan has a son getting married this summer and then probably another one getting engaged,” Chapple remarked during their interview.
Vassos elaborated,
“Yeah, so I have family weddings I’m dealing with, which is wonderful and all happy things. So we’re gonna take a back seat to all that.”
With numerous family engagements ahead, the couple recognized that hastening their wedding plans could introduce unwarranted stress. Vassos shared their approach to relationships, asserting they would proceed at the right time without rushing into decisions.
She mentioned that what feels right is essential for them now, and they prefer relishing their current stage without the burden of expectations. Chapple also supports this sentiment, acknowledging that their present rhythm is fulfilling and adaptable. They continue nurturing their connection, well-aware that their journey doesn’t adhere to a rigid timeline.
Thriving in a Long-Distance Relationship
Joan Vassos and Chock Chapple have successfully crafted a schedule that accommodates their long-distance relationship. They make a point to visit each other approximately every other week, coordinating their plans in advance.
“We kind of combine our schedules every month and see where we can see each other, so it’s been great,” Vassos explained.
Chapple acknowledged that this dynamic requires both planning and commitment, humorously commenting that “Joan’s in charge,”as he happily follows her lead. Their regular meetups often involve exciting travel itineraries to explore new destinations together.
“So with our meetings, we find something fun to do. We get great opportunities, and we try to make it work for us,” she added.
The couple has enjoyed trips to vibrant locations like Cancún, Los Angeles, and New York as part of their efforts to strengthen their bond. Vassos emphasized that being engaged does not necessitate constant proximity; rather, their relationship thrives despite the miles.
She noted that an interval exceeding two weeks without seeing each other can evoke a sense of longing. “That ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder’ is really true,” she reflected.
For those interested in their journey, episodes of The Golden Bachelorette are available for streaming on Hulu.