The Bachelor: Should Grant Ellis and Juliana Pasquarosa Ignore Public Opinion and Let the Backlash Fade?

The Bachelor participants Grant Ellis and Juliana Pasquarosa have found themselves under significant scrutiny due to their unconventional relationship journey. However, instead of shying away from criticism, the couple appears to be embracing the spotlight. Their connection blossomed during the competition, with a palpable chemistry evident from their very first date. Although Juliana was among the last contestants to enjoy a one-on-one with Grant, she remained confident in their bond, which ultimately led to Grant’s memorable proposal just before the finale of season 29.

Throughout the season, Grant wrestled with his decision: to propose to either Juliana or Litia Garr. His emotional ties to both women were apparent, as he articulated his feelings for Litia on multiple occasions. Despite his heartfelt declarations, Grant ultimately selected Juliana, a choice that sparked a heated debate online. While they have encountered backlash, the couple has chosen to confront these challenges head-on. Instead of retreating, they should focus on nurturing their relationship and enjoying their engagement, as their happiness is what truly matters at this moment.

Juliana Responds to Litia Garr’s Comments

Litia’s Discontent with Grant Affects Juliana

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Litia was understandably shocked when she was eliminated at the proposal altar. In the run-up to this pivotal moment, Grant reassured her of his feelings, promising his commitment. The night before the big day, Litia was so optimistic that she remarked, “Oh my gosh, we’re getting engaged tomorrow!” Grant reciprocated her enthusiasm, further solidifying her hopes.

However, when Litia received the unexpected news, her fury was palpable. In expressing her frustrations, she inadvertently involved Juliana, creating tension between the two. Litia’s commentary, which included a suggestion for Juliana to question Grant’s loyalty, unintentionally undermined the relationship between Juliana and Grant. She stated, “I would have a lot of questions if I were her, from the things that you’ve said for me.” This was not merely a passing comment; it struck at the heart of Juliana’s confidence in her bond with Grant.

Furthermore, during a live segment, Litia made another pointed remark: “I know I deserve someone [who knows] without a shadow of a doubt that they’re going to choose me.” While Litia’s feelings are valid, this comment feels like it was directed more at Grant and less towards Juliana. Juliana later discussed these remarks on The Viall Files podcast, noting that she had considered Litia a friend and was taken aback by the comments. When probed about the “mean girl” energy from Litia, Juliana replied, “Definitely.” Her disappointment was evident as the back-and-forth continued to unfold in public.

Grant Addresses the Critics

Amidst ongoing backlash, Grant and Juliana are finding it challenging to disregard negative perceptions. In a TikTok video, Grant directly addressed the criticism. Though his intention appeared to be sincere, his approach inadvertently reignited discussions about his controversial decision and the opinions surrounding it.

In the video, Grant shares a light-hearted moment, captioned: “When Bach nation is everyone trying to get clout by taking shots but you’re just a guy who’s happy he found love and happy his dad is sober.” Although he may have hoped for a sympathetic response, the timing and tone of the caption only attracted more criticism. Many viewers sympathize with Litia’s former position, leading to a flurry of comments that reflect that sentiment.

A user on TikTok, @alyssallaurenn, commented, “Having empathy for Litia since you blindsided her does not equal hate towards you & Juliana.” This sentiment echoes the struggles Grant faces as he navigates public opinion in the aftermath of the contentious finale. To regain support, Grant may need to demonstrate genuine growth rather than merely offering apologies.

Juliana responded to the backlash, stating, “We stay in our lane baby.” Her comment sparked further discourse, with numerous replies, highlighting that while there is a faction of support for the couple, significant criticism remains. To avoid prolonged negativity, Juliana and Grant might consider minimizing their responses to detractors.

Grant and Juliana Should Move Past the Controversy

Focusing on Their Relationship

Although Litia’s remarks may come off as bitter, it could be advantageous for Juliana to simply rise above the tension. Litia’s resentment should not have involved Juliana, as the real focus should be on Grant’s decisions and accountability. When negativity is directed at one’s character, it often serves as bait for a reaction; hence, ignoring it could be the most effective strategy.

Grant’s well-meaning post, while intended to be uplifting, only opened the door for more criticism. Given their current happiness, that should be their priority. Despite the inherent stress of dealing with public opinion, actively engaging with detractors prolongs the negativity. To concentrate on building their relationship, Grant and Juliana may benefit from adopting a more low-key approach for the time being.

Sources:
The Viall Files,
Grant Ellis/TikTok,
alyssallaurenn/TikTok,
Juliana Pasquarosa/TikTok

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