The Bachelor Season 29 Recap: Why I’ll Always Disagree with Grant Ellis for Loving Both Women

The tumultuous journey of The Bachelor season 29 showcased Grant Ellis struggling to define his feelings amidst a backdrop of uncertainty. Throughout the season, it became increasingly evident that the 31-year-old day trader was unsure of his intentions, leading to the elimination of some of his purported favorites while lesser connections persisted. In a surprising twist, Grant professed his love to the final two contestants, a move that stirred controversy, particularly among viewers and fans of Litia Garr, who felt betrayed by his actions.

Many aspects of Grant’s approach seemed perplexing. Although he expressed a desire to find a lifelong partner and start a family, he often appeared conflicted about what he truly sought in a companion. In a pivotal moment during the season finale, Litia accused Grant of consistently assuring her that she was his top choice—a claim he did not refute. This accusation culminated in a shocking proposal to Juliana Pasquarosa, an encounter that many, including myself, found troubling due to Grant’s earlier declarations of love.

Misleading Affections: Grant Led Litia On

“I Can’t Believe We’re Getting Engaged Tomorrow”

Grant’s contradictions became painfully clear during the season finale, where he expressed his love for both women. Litia was vocal about how Grant led her to believe she was destined for his final rose. She shared revealing comments and reassurances Grant had made earlier that didn’t air during the show, painting a clearer picture of her experience. During her conversation with host Jesse Palmer, Litia recounted Grant’s repeated reassurances that she was his chosen partner, asserting that he even suggested they could end the season prematurely because of his strong feelings for her. This led her to confidently announce, “I can’t believe we’re getting engaged tomorrow,”to which Grant offered an encouraging response.

Despite Litia’s inquiries about when Grant’s feelings shifted, he maintained that he had genuinely loved her but felt a stronger connection with Juliana. Litia’s anger was palpable, especially considering this emotional rollercoaster she’d experienced. Her confidence leading to the rose ceremony hinged on Grant’s prior words, leaving us to question whether he truly realized the impact of his actions.

A Proposal to Juliana

An Attraction to Juliana

Ultimately, Grant’s final choice was Juliana, with whom he exited the show in an engagement. Although he professed love for her, the emotional depth felt less intense compared to what he’d shared with Litia. Grant attributed his decision to their shared enjoyment of each other’s company, a rationale that raises eyebrows given the emotional claims made in earlier weeks. This move seemed self-serving and questionable, especially considering Juliana’s struggles with vulnerability stemming from a past relationship.

While it was evident that Grant found Juliana attractive, her inability to fully open up emotionally cast doubts on the potential longevity of their relationship. The turning point came during a family visit when she finally expressed her love, adding complexity to the dynamics of the season. In contrast, Litia had never expressed such feelings to anyone, making Grant’s seeming betrayal particularly hard-hitting.

Grant’s Uncertainty: Wishy-Washy Until the End

“The Truth Is, I Don’t Know”

Grant Ellis Looking Somber — Custom Image by César García

Grant’s indecisiveness dominated the season, leading to a tense finale where he wavered until the last possible moment. During a critical juncture, he bluntly admitted to host Jesse Palmer, “The truth is, I don’t know,”which only underscored his apparent uncertainty. Ultimately, he did opt for Juliana, yet such lack of commitment raises disturbing questions regarding his readiness for a lasting relationship.

The Future of Grant and Juliana’s Engagement

Uncertain Prospects for Lasting Love

While Grant and Juliana’s engagement might initially seem promising, doubts about their long-term viability persist. Having witnessed stronger connections from other couples like Joey Graziadei and Kelsey Anderson, their relationship appears less secure. Perhaps my skepticism stems from Grant’s troubling track record of declaring love indiscriminately, which has led me to conclude that he struggled with understanding precisely what he wanted throughout the season. His erratic decisions—such as dismissing Alexe Godin soon after granting her the first impression rose—further complicate any projections of future happiness with Juliana.

In summary, Grant’s unpredictable nature and lack of clarity have cast shadows on the future of his engagement with Juliana Pasquarosa. As fans, we are left reflecting on the complexities of love showcased in The Bachelor season 29.