“Sour Grapes?”: The Bachelor’s Litia Claims Grant Misled Her During His Engagement to Juliana (Is Litia Playing the Victim Card?)

Litia Garr recently exited The Bachelor Season 29 without an engagement, and has since voiced her frustrations regarding Grant Ellis, who chose Juliana Pasquarosa as his fiancée. Despite her strong bond with Grant, which culminated in her reaching the final two, Litia found herself in a surprising position once Grant proposed to Juliana instead.

From the outset of the season, Litia and Grant shared a notable chemistry. She enjoyed two exclusive dinners with him—one after a spontaneous three-on-one date and another during her dedicated one-on-one outing in Scotland. Nevertheless, their connection did not translate to a lasting match, and Litia ultimately departed the show without a proposal. She now claims that Grant misled her about their relationship and did not manage their time on the show adequately.

Is Litia Justified in Voicing Her Discontent?

Let Grant & Juliana Enjoy Their Happiness

Juliana Pasquarosa on The Bachelor
Juliana Pasquarosa on The Bachelor
Litia Garr meeting Grant Ellis
Litia Garr on The Bachelor
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While Litia has valid reasons to feel upset—particularly given that she expressed her feelings of love to Grant for the first time in her life—her public complaints seem ill-timed. As Grant and Juliana embrace their new relationship, Litia’s grievances distract from their joy. It’s essential to recognize that entering The Bachelor meant accepting the possibility of not being chosen, and while it’s natural to feel hurt, placing blame on Grant diminishes the integrity of his search for a partner.

Did Litia Contribute to her Own Heartache?

A Mismatch in Life Goals

Litia’s approach on the show was commendable. She was candid about her feelings and aspirations, revealing that at 31, she wishes to start a family within two years. However, such a definitive timeline could have raised concerns for Grant, who envisioned a longer timeline prior to having children. Juliana Pasquarosa, the season’s winner, referenced this disparity during an interview with People, stating:

“I know Litia’s timeframe for settling down is different than mine was, but it’s comparison by circumstance. That doesn’t take anything away from me, and I hope that that doesn’t take anything away from her.”

The contrast in timelines may have influenced Grant’s decision, leading him to express that his relationship with Juliana was “more fun.” While Litia’s honesty about her intentions is commendable, it may have inadvertently contributed to the disconnect with Grant, ultimately resulting in her departure from the show.

The Future for Grant & Juliana

A Focus on Their Relationship

Grant Ellis and Juliana Pasquarosa in an embrace
ABC

Currently, Grant and Juliana are engaged, though they have yet to announce their wedding plans. Grant is preparing to relocate to Boston to be closer to Juliana. As for Litia, there are speculations about her potential appearance on a future season of Bachelor in Paradise, although she has not confirmed any immediate plans to return to reality television.

Sources: Litia Garr/Instagram, People

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