Relationship dynamics can be complex, especially when they play out in the public eye. Mark Bessette and Mina Mack, known from the reality series 90 Day Fiancé, have certainly not shied away from drama. Hailing from West Ossipee, New Hampshire, Mark is a seasoned pilot who encountered Mina, a Parisian native, during a business trip. Despite the couple’s undeniable chemistry, Mark has expressed hesitation regarding their relationship, primarily due to their significant age difference—Mark is 58, while Mina is 35. Together, they have a daughter, Maria, who has recently moved to the U.S. to join her father.
Both Mark and Mina bring children from previous relationships into their family mix. Mina has a son named Clayton, who has yet to come to the U.S., while Mark is the father of two boys, Jordan and Jack, from his earlier marriage. Jordan, who has made quite an impression on 90 Day Fiancé audiences, has been quite vocal about her reservations regarding Mina. In turn, Mina has not hesitated to label Jordan a hypocrite, particularly after discovering that Jordan was concerned about the authenticity of her feelings for Mark, fearing that Mina might just be after a green card. Mina candidly stated, “I am not happy, and I am not comfortable… I see a snake,” regarding her impressions of the family dynamics.
Insights into Jordan’s Relationship with Mark
Jordan’s Perspective on Mina
In a recent episode, Mark shared that the majority of his acquaintances have voiced skepticism about his relationship with Mina. Many question whether Mina’s interest goes beyond love, suspecting that her intention might be to secure a green card through Mark. He confessed, “You never know anyone’s intentions 100 percent.” His daughter, Jordan, was also less than enthusiastic about Mina, especially after visiting Paris with her brother Jack for Maria’s baptism, where Mina, notably, was late and missed pivotal family moments.
“My future wife and my daughter have to get along or there is going to be a big problem.”
Despite a lavish celebration following the baptism, Jordan felt that Mina prioritized styling herself over connecting with Mark’s children. Her concerns intensified when Mark revealed intentions for another child with Mina, prompting Jordan to declare, “That would be devastating.”She expressed fears that a new baby would significantly shift their family dynamics and voiced that she struggled to accept this change due to her feelings of exclusion. Jordan contended that Mark was at an age where settling down should be less about diaper duty and more about enjoying retirement, suggesting that Mina might be aiming to exert control over him and cause divisions within their family. She even recommended that Mark consider a prenuptial agreement, indicating it could reveal Mina’s true motivations.
Jordan’s Engagement to a Notable Football Player
Life in Florida
Mark and Mina’s journey included a visit to Mark’s family in North Carolina where hopes were high for Jordan and Mina to bond. In March 2025, Jordan surprised her followers by announcing her engagement to Gabe, a former fullback for the Los Angeles Chargers, via social media, declaring, “Future Mr. & Mrs. Nabers.”
Jordan’s Business Ventures
Collaborating with Bessette Aviation
Jordan has not only made a name for herself on social media, where she boasts over 24,000 followers, but she’s also the founder of the clothing brand DAY + MOOD, launched in August 2022 at just 24 years old. With a keen eye for fashion, her vision was to cultivate a loungewear line that marries comfort and style. Alongside her entrepreneurial endeavors, she actively participates in her father’s aviation business, Bessette Aviation, managing media and communications.
Current Status of Jordan’s Relationship with Mina
Jordan’s Attendance at Mark and Mina’s Wedding
Jordan has candidly expressed her feelings to Mark, making it clear that his new relationship has marginalized her role in his life. She urged him not to forget about his other children amidst the changes, stating that he would not consider having another child with someone closer to his own age. Discontented by the lack of effort from Mina to engage with her, particularly during their Paris meeting, Jordan asserted that Mina had ulterior motives concerning Mark’s assets. Eventually, Mina decided that Jordan would not be invited to her wedding, signifying the estrangement between them.
“I think you [are] a snake… I think now, you don’t come to my wedding.”
Despite their differences, recent social media activity suggests a thawing. Mark and Mina have likely exchanged vows, and the fact that they now follow each other on Instagram indicates a desire to move past earlier hostilities and embrace a familial bond.
90 Day Fiancé airs Sundays at 8 p.m. EDT on TLC.
Sources: Jordan Bessette/Instagram, DAY + MOOD, Bessette Aviation/Instagram, Mark Bessette/Instagram