The latest installment of 90 Day Fiancé season 11, episode 8, aired on April 6, 2025, under the title Love, Sweat, and Tears. This episode highlighted the challenges faced by Sarper Shekinah and Alliya amid their evolving relationships. Sarper found himself under pressure from Shekinah’s daughter, Sofie, while Alliya grappled with her own transformation and its implications for her future with Shawn.
Insights into Episode 8 of 90 Day Fiancé Season 11
Challenges of Family Integration: Sarper and Shekinah
As Sarper adapted to his new life in the United States, the dynamics of his relationship with Shekinah came into sharp focus. Shekinah’s anxieties about Sarper’s compatibility with her family led to intense discussions. During a candid moment with her friend Sofie, she shared:
“We have 90 days to get married or else he can’t stay in the U.S. So we’re just trying to figure out a lot of things in that time.”
The impending deadline added considerable pressure to their relationship. Shekinah’s hope for Sarper to bond with Sofie was clear when she emphasized:
“The two most important people in my life I want you guys to have a relationship to.”
Sofie, however, expressed hesitance, reflecting on her mother’s turbulent past in relationships. She remarked thoughtfully in her confessional:
“My mom’s past relationships have definitely influenced my perspective.”
Despite Sofie’s doubts, Shekinah remained optimistic, believing that securing her daughter’s endorsement of Sarper would solidify their bond. She explicitly stated her commitment to her daughter’s feelings, suggesting she would choose Sofie’s happiness over her own relationship if necessary.
Alliya’s Transition Raises Questions for Shawn
Meanwhile, the spotlight also fell on Alliya’s relationship with Shawn, particularly regarding her transition and the resulting emotional uncertainties. In a revealing conversation, Alliya opened up to Shawn about her struggles with germaphobia and its effect on their relationship. She questioned:
“I think in the past, like, year, has there been a month that you haven’t tested yourself?”
This exchange prompted Shawn to acknowledge the strain her worries placed on their connection. Alliya further probed Shawn about his thoughts on potential surgery and its impact on their dynamic:
“If I want to change my body and do surgery and these kinds of things, do you still feel attractive or would you change?”
Shawn’s response was nuanced yet revealing of his uncertainty. He admitted confusion regarding Alliya’s feelings, particularly after learning that she constantly anticipated changes in herself:
“I fell for a man, and I don’t know how I’m going to feel once every nuance of that person that I fell in love with has been erased.”
As Alliya expressed discomfort with the idea of an open relationship, Shawn grew increasingly anxious about their emotional and physical intimacy. He openly acknowledged feeling unprepared to navigate the complexities surrounding Alliya’s transition.
Catch new episodes of 90 Day Fiancé every Sunday at 8 PM ET on TLC, as the couples continue to confront the intricate challenges of love and change.