The highly anticipated episode 38 of Married at First Sight Australia aired on March 31, culminating with the emotional Final Vows ceremony. This pivotal episode showcased the last three couples as they faced the moment of truth: would they choose to continue their marriage or part ways? Among these couples were Paul and Carina, who had a relationship marked by admiration yet deep-seated issues.
During the ceremony, Paul expressed heartfelt feelings towards Carina, yet she felt compelled to reject him. She accused Paul of undermining their relationship and decided to exit the experiment alone. As she detailed the painful experiences that led her to this decision, Paul’s shock was evident as he struggled to contain his emotions.
“Paul, I was yours. You had me and you ruined it, and now you’re going to have to live with that for the rest of your life.”
Despite Paul’s desperate pleas for Carina to reconsider, she stood firm in her decision to leave. Speaking candidly to the cameras, Carina reflected on the difficulty of departing but was resolute, emphasizing her need for “loyalty, trust, and respect”in a relationship.
Trust Issues Unraveled: Carina’s Bold Decision
Over the course of their time on the show, Carina and Paul’s relationship experienced significant fluctuations. A pivotal moment that ultimately defined their fate was Paul’s choice to go on a date with another contestant, an invitation Carina had declined.
Paul commenced the Final Vows ceremony by acknowledging Carina and her family, and he gradually transitioned into admitting to mistakes during their time together. He expressed a desire for Carina to forgive him, asserting that his past errors made him recognize her value.
However, Carina held a vastly different perspective. While she appreciated the chemistry they shared, she cited a prior incident where Paul reacted violently in frustration by punching a wall. She also recalled a moment when Paul shared a personal message with co-star Awhina, describing how this act made her feel “blindsided.”This incident epitomized her feelings of betrayal.
Despite some high points in their relationship—like their Homestays Week, where Paul gained approval from Carina’s family—his decision to date another woman shattered the foundation of trust they had built. She reflected on these moments with a sense of sadness, highlighting how this act made her question everything she thought she knew about him.
“You were given a test which you failed. In my eyes that was the final straw.”
Carina expressed feelings of humiliation and disrespect, declaring her unwillingness to remain with someone who made her feel inadequate. She concluded her vows with finality, articulating her inability to view Paul in the same light anymore.
“The trust is broken and I can’t come back from that.”
With that statement, Carina ended her vows, leaving Paul engulfed in tears. Despite his apologies, Carina reiterated her decision, stating simply, “I’m done.”While Paul held out hope for reconciliation, Carina clarified that she had made up her mind.
When Paul implored her to consider forgiveness in the future, Carina firmly rejected the notion and walked away from the altar, leaving him sobbing behind her. Though this was not the resolution she had envisioned, Carina understood that she could not overlook the hurt caused by Paul’s actions.
In a poignant moment afterward, Paul confessed to a producer his wish for Carina to “try a little harder”with their relationship, believing she would one day reconsider her choice. Meanwhile, Carina articulated her resolve:
“I’ve made this decision for my future Carina self. As much as it hurts me, this is truly me putting my foot down and putting myself first.”
For fans eager to catch up on all the emotional moments, Married at First Sight Australia season 12 is currently available for streaming on 9Now.