The hit reality series 90 Day Fiancé continues to break new ground in the realm of unconventional relationships. Season 10 introduces a groundbreaking throuple comprised of Matt and Amani Jlassi, a couple married for a decade, along with Any Aguirre, whom they met during a vacation in Mexico. Their initial connection blossomed into a romantic relationship, prompting Any to pursue a K-1 visa to officially relocate to the United States.
Unpacking the Unique Dynamics of 90 Day Fiancé’s First Throuple
In an exclusive interview with People on March 17, 2025, Amani elaborated on the common misunderstandings surrounding their relationship. She expressed a desire to clarify the differences between their throuple and traditional polygamous arrangements often seen on shows like Sister Wives.
“I just didn’t want people to think it was Sister Wives. That’s my nightmare,” Amani stated.
The intricacies of their dynamic are explored throughout their appearances on 90 Day Fiancé, highlighting their evolving relationship, the challenges they face, and the legal obstacles they must navigate as a throuple. Amani’s hope is that sharing their story will resonate with others who may find themselves in similar circumstances.
Navigating Non-Traditional Relationships
Both Matt and Amani shared insights on how their unique relationship dynamic unfolded. While they had previously discussed the concept of an alternative relationship, they were not in search of a third partner until they crossed paths with Any in Mexico.
“It was never a plan where we were like, ‘Okay, right now we are searching for a third. We want to have a throuple,'” Amani explained.
Amani emphasized that their throuple is characterized by equal involvement from all partners, setting them apart from many traditional polygamous structures.
“[Sister Wives] serve around the man, but no, they serve around me, honey,” Amani quipped.
Matt further elaborated on their relationship, noting how they approach attention and affection within their trio. If Amani isn’t receiving enough attention from him, she can turn to Any, and vice versa. Initially, Amani and Any would spend time independently, but as their relationship deepened, so did the bond between Matt and Any.
Despite their commitment to trust, Amani acknowledged the complexities involved in managing a throuple, humorously claiming that “zero jealousy”is a challenging ideal to uphold. She encourages viewers to tune in to their journey to fully grasp the nuances of their relationship.
Facing Legal Challenges Together
As Any currently resides in Mexico, legal pathways must be established for her transition to the U.S. To facilitate the process of obtaining her K-1 visa, Amani and Matt plan to divorce so that one of them can marry Any. While Amani admitted that this process is emotionally taxing, she is optimistic about their long-term vision.
“Divorce is a chapter to open something great in life. That’s how we try to look at it,” she reflected.
Their commitment to open communication has been vital in reinforcing their relationship. By establishing clear boundaries and discussing their feelings openly, they continuously work to maintain their connection.
“As I was going through the emotions, I made sure to communicate with them and we established rules and boundaries based on that. I’m the weird one because I’m like a voyeur,” Amani shared.
Matt also shed light on common misconceptions regarding throuples. He noted that in the initial stages of many throuple relationships, one partner may still explore connections outside the trio. However, he emphasized that a defining moment typically emerges when the relationship solidifies into a more cohesive unit.
Catch their evolving story as part of 90 Day Fiancé, airing Sundays at 8 PM ET on TLC.