Joan Kruchov, a cast member from 90 Day Fiancé, has rapidly become known as the season’s most controversial figure. As the series progresses, her troubling behavior unfolds, painting a complex picture of her character. Originating from Kampala, Uganda, Joan crossed paths with Greg during his impulsive vacation trip to her homeland. After a serendipitous conversation with a travel business owner on a flight, Greg decided to visit Uganda, where he and Joan shared an initial connection. Yet, their communication faltered for over a year after that first meeting.
Their reunion occurred shortly after Greg’s arrival in Uganda, where they quickly developed a bond—particularly after Greg shared his weight-loss journey with Joan. What was particularly remarkable was that a year later, Joan found him on Facebook and sent a friend request, sparking a dialogue that eventually led to a long-distance romance. This culminated in Greg returning to Uganda to propose on Joan’s birthday. Presently residing in the U.S. on a K-1 visa, Joan has voiced her regrets about the decision to marry Greg, which adds to her complicated narrative.
Joan’s Actions Leave Greg’s Mom Feeling “Rejected”& “Worthless”
Joan’s Dress Fitting Left Lucille in Tears
In an effort to alter her wedding dress brought from Uganda, Joan sought assistance from Greg’s mother, Lucille, as she was unable to drive herself. Joan’s request caught Lucille off-guard but she responded positively, stating, “You’re going to be my daughter-in-law, so I need to help you.” With no driver’s license and used to Greg’s transportation, Joan’s request proved inconvenient, as it interrupted Lucille’s cooking.
“I’m looking forward to seeing Joan getting fitted in her wedding gown.”
Lucille was genuinely excited about accompanying Joan on this meaningful occasion, aiming for it to be a bonding moment. During the drive, she attempted to engage with small talk and offered to assist inside the bridal shop. However, Joan hesitated, explaining she preferred to share the moment with her family first, which inadvertently hurt Lucille’s feelings.
“I must say it’s hurtful.”
Lucille’s disappointment was palpable. She later confessed to feeling blindsided by Joan’s decision to exclude her from this pivotal moment, leading to feelings of unappreciation and “worthlessness.” Despite Lucille’s supportive efforts, the lack of acknowledgment from Joan left her grappling with the emotional fallout of the situation.
Joan Asks for a Substantial Dowry from Unemployed Greg
Joan’s Dowry Demand Exceeds Greg’s Means
As part of the traditional marriage customs, Greg is required to pay a bride price to Joan’s family. Joan’s family expects a payment of fifteen cows, with each cow valued at approximately 1.5 million Ugandan shillings or about $200, totaling around $3,000. Joan emphasized to the production team that failure to meet this obligation would be seen as disrespectful to her family and a violation of her late father’s wishes. She bluntly stated, “We can’t get married,” fully aware that Greg is struggling financially and finds it challenging to afford this significant expense.
Was Joan Truly Successful & Wealthy in Uganda?
The Show Lacks Insights into Joan’s Life in Kampala
Joan has increasingly pressured Greg to secure their own apartment, expressing dissatisfaction with their extended stay at his mother’s house. Initially, she intended for this arrangement to last only three to six months, but Greg’s financial situation has forced them to remain longer. Having idealized America as the “land of opportunities,” her disappointment has grown. Joan has urged Greg to “man up” and find means for both the dowry and a new living arrangement. Her need for privacy led her to ask Lucille to vacate her home.
Despite Greg’s financial troubles, which include $8,000 in debt and the costs of frequent trips to Uganda, the narrative portrayed on the show suggests that Joan enjoyed a superior quality of life back in Uganda. Although she seems to have abandoned her career to move to the U.S., viewers are left questioning whether she overlooked Greg’s significant red flags, such as his unemployment and continued dependence on his mother. Many fans speculate that Joan is strategically pursuing a Green Card through their relationship.
90 Day Fiancé airs Sundays at 8 p.m. EDT on TLC.